Annoyance: A True Thief of Joy
Being constantly annoyed is a true thief of joy. While it takes effort, you can, instead, choose to respond to annoying situations differently… because, very often, those situations cannot be changed.
5 Ways to Calm Your Nervous System
Five ways to calm your nervous system: mindfulness, breath, body, thoughts, and behavior
Chattering Mind Keeping You Awake? Try This …
A surprising take on sleep meditation: 99 bottles of beer on the wall. Yes, really…
Use your breath and body to calm your nervous system
We can use our breath and body to calm our nervous system, to communicate directly with our brain.
The #1 reason I recommend my clients meditate
The #1 reason I recommend my clients meditate … and it’s probably not what you think.
Distraction and the "Intimate Interrupter"
Exploring your relationship to distraction and what Mary Oliver calls “the intimate interrupter,” and what to do when it inevitably shows up.
This may freak you out ...
A morbid countdown … or a powerful path to empowered living? You decide.
I'm pulling back from social media: Here's why.
Six reasons why I’ve pulled back from social media … and am better for it.
You gotta believe ...
Whatever comes after, “I just try to tell myself …,” you don’t actually believe. Language matters. Shift your self-talk to access emotional belief not just an intellectual understanding in order to shift how you feel.
Language matters: The brilliance of Wilson Pickett’s cover of ‘Born to be Wild’
Wilson Pickett’s raw version of ‘Born to be Wild’ teaches us that language matters.
Inspiration at your Fingertips: an alternative to mindless scrolling
Pro-tip to disengage from mindless scrolling and for truly curating inspirational content
Make something with your hands ... You'll be happier!
Making tangible, concrete items with your hands is correlated with reduced depression and anxiety, and improved overall emotional wellbeing.
Finding Meaning in Regret
Exploring the deep structure of regret, and finding the meaning in regret.
Regret: The process of looking back
Exploring what regret is, how it works, and how we process it to allow us to learn from our mistakes and create meaningful lives.
Let's get cozy ...
Exploring the mindset required to practice hygge, the Danish art of “taking pleasure in the presence of gentle, soothing things,” using mindfulness, gratitude, and getting out of your comfort zone.
How I accidentally became a therapist
How I organically transitioned from a forensic psychologist to an anxiety therapist … against my will.
Root to Flourish READS: ‘The Book of JOY: Lasting Happiness in a Changing World'
‘Root to Flourish READS’ recommends ‘The Book of Joy: Lasting Happiness in a Changing World’ by His Holiness The Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu. This book chronicles a week-long conversation with these two spiritual leaders, allowing their own wisdom to provide an answer to the question: How do we find joy in the face of inevitable suffering?
Three Things You Can Do *TODAY* To Be Happier
You can be happier today by engaging in these three tasks.
Where can happiness be found? (A ‘Real Life Fantasy’ post)
Taking inspiration from Professor Dumbledore, we reflect on where we can find happiness, from within.
Practicing Happiness
Practicing happiness means leveraging the percentage of our emotional wellbeing that is within our own control, recognizing that our behaviors and our habits do matter to affect how we feel.